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5 Things You Learn About Love, Life And Sex In Your Twenties

by | Oct 31, 2018 | Lifestyle, Living With HIV, Safe Sex, Testing | 0 comments

The twenties are the great leveller. Dopamine levels decline, and responsibilities mount, pocket money stops, and tax filing starts, romantic long crushes end, and working on steady, stable relationships begins. These are five things about life I have only learnt in my twenties. 

 

Indian Boy in Twenties

What you learn in your twenties. 

1. You Can’t Unlove People

You had no control over when and who you fell in love with in the past. You might have made a mistake. But you did fall in love. Now, you can either only cuss yourself for having fallen in love in the past or move on and keep loving more. But, you cannot unlove anyone. They are there to stay and will keep coming back to your mind even if you have moved on and are in your happy state. Even after you break up. Even after you move to a different city. Even after you block them on every social media platform. The truth is they are now a part of your lived life. It is best to accept that you loved them, and the person and their memories will be part of your life (experiences) forever now, however significant or insignificant you want them to be. So release all your past grudges. It will bring calm and even a celebration of what you had.

2. “He Is Not My Type” – This Doesn’t Hold True Anymore

You might have a very ambitious checklist in your teens. Only if they tick all your boxes, will you go out with them or f#@k them. But with age, you realize you are meeting or getting intimate with people who don’t tick all or any of those boxes. Tall or short, careerist or diffused, handsome or average, the shifts are palpable. The best part of the twenties is that you are now beginning to be yourself because you are with people that you find hot not the those you think you should find hot. I always wanted to be with a dark brown nerd, but I am with a fair-skinned artist instead. He is so much hotter and better for me than any dark brown nerd I ever chased.

3. No. Everyone Is Not Having Sex All The Time

You think that everyone is lucky to f*&k around, and you are the only one jerking off by watching porn in your room? No. Most of us are. Not watching porn but definitely masturbating. The Internet has made hooking up (casual sex) a lot easier than before in human history. But having your stars aligned to find sex when you want, where you want and with whom you want – that’s still not so easy! Maybe some people are getting laid relatively more than others, but that doesn’t mean you are unwanted and they are wanted. The truth is, all of us are equally JO central!

Enjoying Life Young Indian Boys

Indian men enjoying their twenties.

4. Everyone Does Random Hookups

We all have pure and pious friends who have never had a hook-up. They only want to be with their perfect one. It is okay, they are monogamous. They only want to have sex with one partner. The truth is that most people hook-up at some point in life and it is okay to do so. With as many as you want. The number of people (high or low) doesn’t define your character. Just be sure that you are playing it safe, with everyone.

5. STDs and HIV are real

While you are a teenager, you are fearless as Superman, lithe as Spiderman and dark and brave as Batman. You are game for anything be it wild or risky. You are fearless, Nadia. However, in your twenties, you realize people around you have been tested positive or have STDs. These folks might want to think that whatever they did was safe but it wasn’t. You get to know people whom you would never think would be positive (because they assumed whatever they did was safe!). Then, you step up to help the people who did test positive and make sure they get treated and remain healthy; and you use different flavours of condoms to spice up your life.

 

Any other important lesson you learnt in your twenties? Share it with us and join us on Facebook!

 

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